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My Development as a Kinky Deviant Pt 5
In previous chapters I described how my kinks developed over time. How my youthful naivete was slowly replaced by knowledge of others likes and kinky leanings. Thanks to the internet and years of surfing I have found sites that cater to every interest.
First, I sought other men who were into the cock play I was most interested in. It took some time to find other men who like to sound their cocks. Too many men are frightened and squeamish about pushing a rod deeply into, or up, or down their cocks. It took some time for me to conquer my fears when I first started sounding.
Between sounding sessions I felt a bit ashamed of my depravity. But, when I felt the need to pleasure myself I'd turn to my sounds and sounding objects to stuff down deeply in my cock. I progressed to using different objects of differing thicknesses and lengths to push down my urethra. I found not only the idea of sounding my cock to be very hot, but the idea of using different objects, with different lengths and thicknesses, to be especially inspiring. Not only is sounding itself very hot and erotic but seeing your cock swallow a rod so that it disappears totally embedded in your cock and fills up your urethra is tremendously hot looking and feeling. Is it any wonder that I started sounding my cock over 30 years ago and continue to look for other men and various sites to find fellow sounders. Until you've sounded your cock, you cannot imagine the `heat' you feel as you see a rod go deeper down your cock and feel the opening of your urethra as the sound goes deeper.
I have found some men on cams and sites who sound their cocks to a much more advanced level than I have been able to attain. My best thickness is 7/16 of an inch (1.11125 cm) and 10.5 inches (26.67 cm) of depth. I have seen men try to increase thickness and depth. Some claim they have succeeded in doing so. Some men claim a depth of 14 inches (35.56 cm) and a thickness of as much as 7/8 inch (2.11455 cm.) Much as I have tried to increase the depth and thickness, I have come to believe that I have reached my maximum and have contented myself with those limits. Nevertheless, it is hot to see a man sound his cock with various objects. The best sounding is often seen on posting sites where amateurs post their own pics and vids of their erotic kinky play. Often the vid has sound so you can hear the man moan and groan lustfully as he impales his cock to the thickness and depth desired. Audio on vids makes the vid hotter. Audio vids turn me on because it makes me feel as if I am in the room with the man sounding his cock.
The internet has given me the opportunity to find and see sites where other men indulge in the same type of kinky play as I do. Although not every man who sounds earns my interest, the mere fact that he impales his cock with an object merits a view. There are far too few men on cam who show sounding. This is because many of the cam sites consider sounding to be too deviant' or perverse. These sites warn broadcasters that they may be suspended or banned from camming because of their live sounding. Many sites will not allow you to post vids or pics of your sounding in your profile without the threat of consequences if the offensive' graphics are not removed. It seems most sites are run by straight males and cater to female or couple sex. It seems, when it comes to straight sex, you can post pics and vids of various objects being inserted into asses and cunts and mouths, but cannot show a sound inserted into a cock. Part of the `double standard', I guess.
As rare as it is to find sounding men on cam, it is even rarer to find them in person. I have been surfing the internet for about 20 years and in that time only met a handful of sounders on line who wanted to cam-to-cam or meet in person for exotic play, when distance permitted. It is even rarer to find other sounders in gay venues. Any sounders whom I met in person preceded the Covid quarantine and have been lost. These days, I surf the cam sites and pic/vids sites in hopes of finding the sexual kink that means so much to me. Often, the posters to these sites are too distant to meet. However, sometimes you can contact one another via email and arrange for a cam-to-cam session to indulge your passionate pastime with another like-minded and kinky man.
It is impossible to describe the feeling you get from sounding your cock. The best way I can describe it is: it feels like your cock is being sucked on the inside. Inside the full length of your cock in the urethra. It is an incredible feeling. A feeling that makes a man easily addicted to it.
There are some men who sound on cam and in videos purely for the shock value.' By shock value I mean, men who sound not because they like it, but only because it is something different that will attract viewers to watch them or view their graphic postings. These are men who are like me in that they want something to see that is beyond the ordinary. Ordinary' being masturbating, tickling or clipping their nips mildly, or dildoing their asses.
So many straight and married men like to play with their nipples. dildo their asses, and solicit something `different.'
For me, the truly exciting sounder is he who basks in the sensations he derives from sounding, Who loves the idea of impaling his cock. Who relishes not only the sight of a sound descending deeper into his cock, but gets lost in the sensations of the sound filling his urethra and plunged to depths previously unknown. Sound is like going to uncharted territory that very few "have gone before!"
So, sounding, as well as my other fetishes, is for those men for whom the garden-variety of sexual pleasure has become run-of-mill. These men seek something new and truly exciting and have found it via sounding. The drawback to being so open-minded is that there are too few men, especially older men, who are so open-minded or who think of exotic erotic means to please themselves and please others.
Even without sounding, I find men online with whom I'd like to hook up. Often, these men are older. Most often they are everyday' guys who are not into twinks or not into gym rats and who are not gym rats themselves. Professional porn bores me. Yet, show me an older guy on the street' and he will get my attention. He may not do anything that is kinky or deviant. He just has to have something about him that turns me on. He could have an appealing chest, appealing pecs, appealing nipples are a special weakness for me. His cock does not have to be porn-movie large but attractive in its own right and balls that are attractive in their own right. Many older men I see and have met online, whether friended or not, are viewed repeatedly whenever I come across them so that I can enjoy his body visually, if not in person. I am visually oriented and can get excited from watching a hot man play on cam, with or without chat.
I have found sites that cater to men who have a fetish for their own nips. This fetish includes play from mild, novice play such as fingering and tickling to more advanced play such as clips and clamps on the nipples. The use of clamps on the nipples is especially hot to me. I like a good, solid clamp tightly squeezing my nip and then add weight slowly to the clamp. The slow addition of weight along with the adjustment of the clamp screw allow more bite' on my nip. The combination of pain with pleasure in my nipple abuse is guaranteed to make me hotter and insistent in seeking a good orgasm. I have found sites that cater to men such as myself who indulge in kinky' sex play.
Imagination is the antithesis to boredom. Finding men who are imaginative and daring in their wants and play is exciting in itself. Suffice it to say that there are some kinks and deviations to which I will not respond. Kinks such as scat, blood, vomit, animals, children, golden showers (receiving) and fisting (receiving) are those at which I draw a line. I do not condemn those into these kinks, but simply do not watch them. "Different strokes for different folks" is the credo by which I live.
So, the internet porn sites may have caused the death of professional porn but has opened up a greater variety of porn to suit everyone's interests, whatever they may be.
You can find sites where men of all ages post pics and vids of their sexual play. You can find sites where men are looking to hook up with other men who share the same interests...whether mundane or exotically kinky. You can find men whose kink is so unique you never thought of it yourself. Aside from being the `information highway' the internet has opened up doors to allow you to expose your deepest, darkest secrets and your unusual wants and needs. Is it any wonder that only a very small segment of the world's population is unaware or unfamiliar with all that is made available to us because of the internet.
We now have the freedom to indulge in our most hidden and deepest, darkest secrets and share them with others. No longer the feeling of `aloneness' that we were the only ones to indulge in what we thought was singular to ourselves. Now, the knowledge that whatever you thought was original to you was original to many others is comforting and exciting. The feeling of community with like-minded individuals makes us feel less alone and more excited to know others like us are out there and seeking others like ourselves. .