You are superior to me in so many ways, I almost don't know where to begin. First of all, you're straight and I'm a faggot. Gay guys pretend to be just as good as straights, but we secretly know that deep down we're inferior when compared to a Real Man like you--that's why we're homos. Besides, you'd probably rather fuck a chick any day than just use a queer's mouth as a pussy or his face as a sperm target, so I realize right from the start that I'm at best a second-rate choice for dumping your load and so I know that I will have to work especially hard to get you to make it worth your while to come back again.
Guys like me feel lucky if you treat us mean, if you call us names, if you show no respect for us. In fact, I feel lucky that you even responded to someone as submissive and masochistic as me. The main thing for you is showing and feeling your doiminance and power, while at thje same time it is both laughable and disgusting to think of a guy with as little apparent self-respect as me down there slobbering all over your dick, sniffing out your sweaty nuts, groveling at your feet, working so hard for your pleasure and getting nothing back except insults and orders; and even though I'm making you feel real, real good with my mouth and tongue, you never let me forget for a minute that I'm less of a man than you.
For the dominant partner this power play is very straightforward and easy to understand: dominating a masochistic cocksucker gives vent to his frustrations and feeds his innate need to assert power and control and mastery over his surroundings. It is a very primitive means of relief, but it makes perfect sense. When encountering a masochistic submissive, these tops often take advantage of the fact and use this kind of submissive gay guy shamelessly for their own amusement and kicks, getting them to do all sorts of humiliating shit for them. It is much more common than most people think. And I'm not talking about anything non-consensual. With primarily heterosexual men, it is, in fact, perhaps only with submissive gays they meet in anonymous settings that they allow themselves to express these domineering, sadistically-tinged desires, even though they would probably prefer to enact these kinds of scenes with women (but just try to call a woman a cocksucker while she's blowing you!). For the masochist the reasons for the sexual excitement in being humiliated are not nearly as apparent.
The truth is, cocksuckers like me realized from childhood that we would never be like the other boys--not real boys, not into sports, not accepted as one of the guys, but instead were picked on and humiliated by bullies, and were too scared to fight back. By seeking out humiliation as adult masochistic queers, -- essentially the victims seeking out the bullies -- we are just reenacting the patterns we established back then, to submit to the desires of another, more aggressive guy's sadistic whims in order to somehow merge with him in the blow job, thereby "importing" a degree of virility from a Real Man -- a Man like you, whose masculinity is not diminished but rather enhanced by letting a sick motherfuck like me suck your dick and obediently follow your perverse and degrading orders -- things you would never do for any man. I need to capture, steal or "pirate" another guy's manhood in order to make up for my own masculine shortcomings.